Every relationship starts with a lot of passion and love. With surprises and flowers of course. Initially, it’s all about how much you have missed each other when you were not together. But when the phase gets over, you land on the ground of reality. And if the cliches are right, then this is where the romance ends, right? Rekindle the romance with your tiny moments of love.
Nope, not at all, the romance is never over, it just takes a different form- with tiny moments and things we often don’t think twice about. Love is in the little things you do for your partner. And that’s the simplest way to improve the daily ‘khitpit’ of your life.
Chase your tiny moments of love
Create a list to find out what interests you and your partner in common. Did you have hobbies now abandoned, in your youth? What are your personal desires and aspirations? Make notes of your ideas and dreams. Eventually, one or more possibilities will begin to flower in your mind. Take a step forward, start working on it.
The main idea is to ‘have fun’ in whatever attracts you. The goals you share as a couple should be rewarding in terms of fun, growth or personal satisfaction. If it irritates you, it’s time to rethink that goal.
Talk about things, good or worse. Be faithful and make time for one another. Leave the past to the past, remember that you won’t always be happy. Don’t try to change your partner, accept them with their flaws. Stay like the best friends and half of your problem will disappear. Stop wasting away, your best time is now.
It is natural that as a couple you guys share some common interests, beyond home and children. This is what will form the basis of long-term goals. These interests might include trekking activities, sports, hiking or traveling. In other couples, it is important to find the common interest that can become shared goals of your life. Do the right things together. Do something just a little out of the ordinary to make their day easier. Sometimes, sit together in silence because that is beyond the need of small talks. Time is running out, make best out of it, live it. Learn from your life, your experiences, your mistakes, your choices. Make yourself aware of more important things other than your 9-5 job. That’s basic. Important, but basic. Love your life and your partner. Feel the magic of life again.
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